- Gbemi and Henry: we weren’t in the same city at the time, Gbemi was in Abuja and I was in Lagos except when we visited, so we didn’t exactly have that luxury of time to spend life with each other, the few times we spent under the same roof were weekends, we’ve been married for 5 years, It’s been beautiful.
- Zack and Bola: Zack was everything I wanted but a terrible snore, his snoring was so bad that I would sleep in the guest room or living room sometimes, it was hard to navigate but because we lived together before marriage, I grew accustomed to it and today he is still the amazing man and a terrible snore and I’ve learned to love him for all that he is.
- David and Ify: we both decided that we were going to live together for at least a month, there and then I realized we will do this for the rest of our lives, IFY was amazing with the chores even though she barely looked like someone who could work and she spoke mostly about getting help when they had conversations about after marriage and [it helped me figure out more ways to help and love her.
- James and Tola: we do not support the idea of living together before marriage, I think it increases chances of separation or even divorce after marriage itself, we weren’t celibate but we chose that boundary to guide us through our journey
- Fred and Priscilla: Fred and I agreed to not live together to help our sanity, I was glad he agreed to protect my mental space until we got married however, we ended up not getting married still because along the way we realized we both didn’t respect each other values in spite of the length of time we’ve been together.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT LOVERS COHABITING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE…. Drop your opinions in the comment session
Well, this is subjective.
But in a way, I’ll say yes and no but allow me stay neutral for now. Both yes and no, has it advantages and disadvantages, but what doesn’t tho. Lol!